Kobana’s just being a bully.
Kobana is being unreasonable, he thinks he can boss Asha around. He should realise that Asha is behaving responsibly by going for a HIV test. Even if she hasn’t got HIV at least she will know that she is safe from spreading the infection. Kobana should be going for a test with Asha so they can give each other support and find out if either of them have HIV.
December 21st, 2007 at 11:28 pm
yeah he is a bully….
April 24th, 2008 at 7:21 pm
Clearly Asha and Kabana should start to talk more than what we have seen in the video film. It is clear that any issue can lead to a fight when couple have no a culture of talking things through. HIV is one of important issue in African Communities we need to start an on going talk about it with our love ones whether big or small people. Together we can stop the HIV spread in our community.
April 24th, 2008 at 7:25 pm
I am not sure that Kabana is bossing Asha or any one else. Kabana is a man and he has the right to know what Asha does as well as Asha have the right to know what Kabana does with her health. Kabana and Asha need to talk more to each other and create the same atmosphare in their lovely family of their own.
March 9th, 2009 at 9:23 pm
i think its amazing that at no point did his sexual history get raised and that all the responsibity was placed on her when she was just responding to her DRs suggestion to test .
such a shame that he became so defensive and unable to be open to the concept that we all need to test . how scarey for her to have taken the first steps only to be threatened with being chucked out - what a disgrace!!